Let every one of us please his neighbour for his good to edification.
I’m not sure when I found this scripture the first time, but I was reading from my mission set of scriptures a few weeks ago and found that I had especially marked this scripture. I read it again and realized that all this scripture says is that we ought to be like Jesus. We ought to serve others and when we serve others, we are edified and find joy. I know from experience that when I focus on myself and my “hobbies” instead of my family or my home-teaching families, I am not happy at all. Only when I re-focus my efforts and serve others do I find the joy that I always want to have.